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Thursday 29 November 2012

How to give a compliment

I was taught, I forget by whom, but I think it was in a book I've forgotten the name of, that a compliment should be:

clear,
specific
something else with three syllables that I never could remember
sincerely meant,
and true.

It drives me mad that I never can remember what the other thing was.

3 comments:

  1. Pleasing? But that's two syllables...

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  2. Don't know the answer, but could the quote be based on this:

    “Before you speak ask yourself: Is it kind, is it necessary, it is true, does it improve upon the silence?”

    ― Shirdi Sai Baba

    In other words, something like "kind", but three syllables?

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  3. Spontaneous? But 4 syllables . . .

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